For those ready to upgrade desire, connection, and truth...
The Erotic Reclamation
You don't need another healing journey. You need a backbone.
You’ve done the work: therapy, self-help books, courses...
but relationships still cost you too much.
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You give, they take. You talk, they vanish. You love, and end up managing it all.
You've seen your patterns, and what you want now is to break them.
(Hating yourself, changing yourself, blaming and shaming yourself hasn't worked, has it?)
You don't need more insight. You need a way out.
The Erotic Reclamation is where you stop being the caretaker of everyone else’s emotions and start building the kind of self-respect that changes everything you attract.
This is a three-month initiation into power, boundaries, and desire.
Finally, you’ll catch every moment you leak energy, collapse your needs, doubt or dim yourself,—in dating, romance, and sex—and shift from confusion to mastery.
This is the work that makes you unrecognizable to the version of you that tolerated crumbs.
Inside, you’ll:
🔥 Unhook from toxic relationship cycles and rebuild trust in yourself
🔥 Use Somatic tools to prime your system for pleasure instead of people-pleasing
🔥 Reignite your erotic charge and reconnect to your raw sexual appetite
🔥 Learn communication that commands respect, without hardening your heart
You don’t have to earn love by disappearing.
You reclaim it by standing all the way up.
What to Expect
The Somatic framework that moves you from the chaos of old patterns to the calm, grounded power of knowing yourself.
I’ll guide you through a proven progression that takes you from overthinking and emotional exhaustion, to clarity, precision, and deep erotic connection — with yourself first, and then with others.
You’ll move through three distinct phases designed to build lasting change:
Phase One: The Break
We start by unearthing what’s been running your relationships — the habits, beliefs, and nervous system reflexes that keep you over-giving, doubting, or disconnecting from desire.
You’ll finally understand why it’s been so hard to change.
Awareness becomes relief, resistance eases, power grows.
Phase Two: The Rebuild
Next, we prime your body and mind for safety, desire, and truth.
In real-time, you learn to track your energy and emotions, and connect with the part of you that does know what they want, and develop the self-worth to stand for it.
Phase Three: The Rise
This is where esteem becomes muscle memory.
You dance, you flirt, you feel joy, and the pulse of your body feels not only like home, but like a truth worth protecting.
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This is the moment you look back and realize you’re the one who changed the pattern for good.
Structure & Support
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10 private sessions (75–90 minutes each) over 3 months: enough space to integrate without losing momentum.
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Personalized practices and check-ins between sessions to translate insight into action.
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Direct messaging access for support and accountability throughout the process.
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The part of you that talks and analyzes isn’t the one steering your life.
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Somatic work is what truly gets you back into the driver's seat.
Coaching is a powerful investment in yourself, designed to create lasting change and extraordinary results.
Book a Clarity Call to further discuss value, investment, and pricing.
Deep, healthy sexuality and relationships are a by-product of Self-Empowerment.
My clients all have one thing in common - they're unsatisfied sexually or relationally because they are not in alignment with their own truth. Most often they know this - but they don't know what to do about it.
In our container together, I combine the healing power of radical self-acceptance within a liberated sexual ecology, using pleasure as a pathway to power, growth, and authentic self-love.
By blending somatic embodiment, parts work and attachment theory, pleasure practices, breath work, and non-violent communication tools, I facilitate healing and expansion inclusive of Eros, including modalities of Tantra and BDSM, to help each discover and dignify their truest expression of love, connection and sexuality.
Signature Stand-Alones
These 90-minute sessions are immersive, one-time experiences—designed to bring clarity, momentum, and that "ah-ha" moment you've been waiting for, without enrolling in a full coaching package. Held virtually and tailored to your needs, each session includes a customized follow-up document to anchor what we uncover.
Value: $375 | First-time client rate: $222
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Hello! I'm Casey
I’m a relationship and sexuality coach, and Priestess and creator of the Temple of Eros. I specialize in awakening erotic authority, building secure attachment, and guiding people to live radically aligned lives. Through my workshops and 1:1 coaching (available virtually to clients worldwide), I guide people to not only understand their desires but to embody them with fierce confidence and grounded integrity.
My work is informed by my personal journey through the transformative VITA (Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach) Coaching method, where I studied under Layla Martin (Tantric Sex Coach), Cory Scott (Trauma Therapist), and Martina Nabao (Somatic Embodiment Coach). This somatic journey not only deepened my knowledge but also reshaped my own life. I am a trained Non-violent Communication facilitator and Canadian Institute for Conflict Resolution Mediator, which allows me to blend structured methodologies with the intuitive arts of emotional safety and nervous system re-patterning.
What makes my coaching different? It’s not just about talking things through—it’s about doing the deep, embodied work to shift at the root. Transformation truly happens in the body. It’s here that we make lasting shifts and reclaim our power—sexually, relationally, and personally.
My coaching style is profoundly attuned. My clients describe feeling deeply held, seen, and guided in my commitment to our work. They come alive to new levels of desire, relational connection, and personal power, and this is not by chance. It's the result of the quality of tools I use, my grounded presence, and unwavering care, skill, and fierce integrity as a coach.
Through gentle trauma release, rewiring internal scripts, cultivating emotional safety, and a welcoming of authentic sexual expression, we co-create spaces of deep fulfillment and freedom as we meet the true work of transforming relationships—with self, with others, and with desire.
I am a homesteader, mother, emotional alchemist, and modern-day Witch and Priestess.
Casey is currently booking as a keynote speaker, workshop facilitator, and podcast guest.
To bring her voice and expertise to your stage, studio, or event, please get in touch to inquire about availability and rates.
Events
Temple of Eros: An evening of music, movement, and community, exploring embodied consent and erotic expression.
Saturday Oct 11th 6pm - 10pm
DANSpace 1800 Argyle St. Halifax Nova Scotia
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Media
The Aftercare Podcast with Sunny & Skye (62:00)
Normalizing the conversation around sex, kink, and everything in between
The Blackout Podcast with Israel Ekanem (59:00)
Casey & Israel discuss what a Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach is, how she works, and why she's passionate about it
Coming Soon...
The Sex & Leadership Podcast
with Mark Coffin and Casey Vaasjo
Conversations from the edge: where Eros meets audacity in lived experience, and self-leadership becomes a lived art. In this intimate podcast, Mark and Casey share real stories and raw reflections on sovereignty, sexuality, shadow work, and the wild path of becoming deeply self-authored. This is not a how-to; It’s an invitation. Tune in to hear what it sounds like to explore radical alignment with your truth.
My Approach
Somatic Work
Somatic embodiment means we work with the soma as a whole - brain and body - mind, heart, gut, and root. The core of my coaching practice is that our limitations are primarily not mental - they are protection strategies that live in the nervous system that our bodies learned in order to protect us. By meeting these patterns with love and acceptance, rather than resistance, we come into coherence with our own being, which is the true source of personal power and magnetism.
Parts Work
Encompassing inner-child healing and concepts from Internal Family Systems, parts work allows us to interact with the different layers of ourselves that are often acting in us unconsciously. By separating ourselves from the 'part' we gain insight into its desire and purpose, and are able to generate compassion for our own system. They say a liberated being is one who is not in conflict with themselves, and parts work helps us achieve this.
Breath Work
Breath work is the process of using the breath to more deeply and directly interact with the nervous system. Different styles can bring either activation, regulation, or balance, and many clients report having psychedelic experiences with breath work. In my coaching style, breath work is used to both release energy patterns cycling through the body, and to deeply integrate the client's transformations and desired emotional states (like safety, love, or belonging), soaking them into every cell.
​Curious if coaching is the right fit?
Let’s talk. 👉
Book a free 30-minute Clarity Call to explore what’s possible and see if we're a fit. I’d love to hear from you.
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Client Praise
"Casey Vaasjo has been a guiding light in my journey towards self-discovery and deeper connection. Never before have I truly felt the absence of shame and self-judgment in myself - the absence of inner conflict. Her compassionate approach and expertise have made such a difference in my life." -Sara H
"I am so so so grateful for your deep confidence in the journey of life and of love and you sharing that energy with me. Our time together has made my entire course this year feel worth it. I go back to our sessions every time I am in doubt as this shows me my own North Star of my love and my light." -Suzan R
"Having space held by Casey felt not only safe, but also expansive and filled with endless possibilities. Going into these guided sessions, I knew that something would shift each time. This brought excitement, because within that safety, I could really explore. The way Casey would ask questions or use the many tools she is equipped with, allowed for me, a much deeper exploration than I have been able to achieve within different modalities of counselling or coaching." -Sandy D
"Five stars all the way! The main goal that led me to Casey's coaching was wanting to find clarity around what I truly desired and to align my life with that. Through this coaching journey, I had so many profound moments of growth and can now see clearly where so much of my inner conflict was coming from. Casey helped me find liberating language and tools for the painful patterns and limiting beliefs that I've been hung up on for decades. It was amazing to feel seen, heard and validated by someone who also had the mad skills to help me move toward my truest desires. It was so worth it." -George P
"I feel like I made major progress because wow, I saw my values and my desires were not on the same page! Our sessions taught me how to connect with my true desires and give myself permission to form values around those wants and needs. It really feels like the beginning of a transformation toward a version of myself that is true and able to express my full self to the world without getting hung up on harsh judgments, whether it be from others or myself." -Claire R
A big part of my work with Casey seemed to be feeling worthy and deserving of my true desires and not judging them. Up to this point my tendency was to reject and judge my body's desires and feel shame about what it wants if it does not sit within the values I inherited from my family. What really helped me do this was the body work and learning to build back that trust that with my body… trusting that it knows what it wants and knows what it needs." -Andrea R
"What I appreciated most about Casey during our sessions was her curiosity, perceptibility, and enthusiasm for my journey and my growth. Most of all it was her ability to validate my thoughts and experiences. This always felt genuine to me and helped me shed the shame, heavy energy and negative thinking patterns so that we could look forward together and get excited about what I really want and desire underneath all the fear of judgment. She showed a kind of care throughout that I have not seen before in this kind of coach/client relationship." -Tracy B