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You crave deep love,
real pleasure,
and radical confidence.
You're not stuck - your nervous system is.
Let's change that. 

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For those ready to rewire their relationship to desire, connection, and truth...

The Erotic Reclamation

A three-month embodiment journey back to you.

You’re not broken—your patterns are just outdated.

 

You want the deep intimacy, the thrilling sex, the unshakable confidence… but something keeps getting in the way. Old wounds. Unconscious conditioning. A nervous system wired for self-protection instead of pleasure.

 

This program is a full-body reset for your relationships, sexuality, and self-worth. You’ll unravel the patterns keeping you stuck and learn to hold yourself with deep kindness—because true change doesn’t come from force, but from integration.

 

🔥 Heal your relationship to sex & pleasure

🔥 Break free from old relational patterns

🔥 Step into unshakable confidence & authenticity

 

You don’t need to “fix” yourself. You just need to remember who you are.

What to Expect

Because this is not a one-size-fits-all program, the transformation hits different. Your journey is uniquely yours, and our work together will be tailored to meet you exactly where you are.

 

✨ 1:1 coaching, fully customized to your needs, desires, and personal transformation.

✨ Ten deep-dive sessions (75-90 min each) over 3 months, giving you time to integrate while keeping momentum.

✨ Ongoing support—we co-create home practices & accountability check-ins to help you embody the changes in real life.

Coaching is a powerful investment in yourself, designed to create lasting change and extraordinary results.
Book a Clarity Call to further discuss value, investment, and pricing.

 

What to Expect

 

This isn’t a one-size-fits-all program. Your journey is uniquely yours, and our work together will be tailored to meet you exactly where you are. Here’s what that looks like:

 

✨ 1:1 coaching, fully customized to your needs, desires, and personal transformation.

✨ Ten deep-dive sessions (75-90 min each) over 3 months, giving you time to integrate while keeping momentum.

✨ Ongoing support—we co-create home practices & accountability check-ins to help you embody the changes in real life.

Want more? Dive into some inspiration, behind-the-scenes moments, and juicy wisdom over on Instagram. Come say hi, stalk my posts, and get a feel for my vibe 

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Deep, healthy sexuality and relationships are a by-product of Self-Empowerment.
My clients all have one thing in common - they're unsatisfied sexually or relationally because they are not in alignment with their own truth. Most often they know this - but they don't know what to do about it.
In our container together, I combine the healing power of radical self-acceptance within a liberated sexual ecology, using pleasure as a pathway to power, growth, and authentic self-love.  
By blending somatic embodiment, parts work and attachment theory, pleasure practices, breath work, and non-violent communication tools, I facilitate healing and expansion inclusive of Eros, including modalities of Tantra and BDSM, to help each discover and dignify their truest expression of love, connection and sexuality.
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Hello, I'm Casey

I’m a relationship and sexuality coach who specializes in awakening deep pleasure, building secure attachments, and empowering people to live radically aligned lives. Through my workshops and 1:1 coaching (available virtually to clients worldwide), I guide people to not only understand their desires but to embody them with fierce confidence and grounded integrity.

 

My work is informed by my personal journey through the transformative VITA (Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach) Coaching method, where I studied under Layla Martin (Tantric Sex Coach), Cory Scott (Trauma Therapist), and Martina Nabao (Somatic Embodiment Coach). This somatic journey not only deepened my knowledge but also reshaped my own life. I am a trained Non-violent Communication facilitator and Canadian Institute for Conflict Resolution Mediator, which allows me to blend structured methodologies with the intuitive arts of emotional safety and nervous system re-patterning.

 

What makes my coaching different? It’s not just about talking things through—it’s about doing the deep, embodied work to shift at the root. Transformation truly happens in the body. It’s here that we make lasting shifts and reclaim our power—sexually, relationally, and personally.

 

My coaching style is profoundly attuned. My clients describe feeling deeply held, seen, and guided in my commitment to our work. They come alive to new levels of desire, relational connection, and personal power, and this is not by chance. It's the result of the quality of tools I use, my grounded presence, and unwavering care, skill, and fierce integrity as a coach. 

Through gentle trauma release, rewiring internal scripts, cultivating emotional safety, and a welcoming of authentic sexual expression, we co-create spaces of deep fulfillment and freedom as we meet the true work of transforming relationships—with self, with others, and with desire.

 

I am a homesteader, mother, emotional alchemist, and modern-day Witch and Priestess.

My Approach

Somatic Embodiment

Somatic embodiment means we work with the soma as a whole - brain and body - mind, heart, gut, and root. The core of my coaching practice is that our limitations are primarily not mental - they are protection strategies that live in the nervous system that our bodies learned in order to protect us. By meeting these patterns with love and acceptance, rather than resistance, we come into coherence with our own being, which is the true source of personal power and magnetism.

Parts Work

Encompassing inner-child healing and concepts from Internal Family Systems, parts work allows us to interact with the different layers of ourselves that are often acting in us unconsciously. By separating ourselves from the 'part' we gain insight into its desire and purpose, and are able to generate compassion for our own system. They say a liberated being is one who is not in conflict with themselves, and parts work helps us achieve this.

Breath Work

Breath work is the process of using the breath to more deeply and directly interact with the nervous system. Different styles can bring either activation, regulation, or balance, and many clients report having psychedelic experiences with breath work. In my coaching style, breath work is used to both release energy patterns cycling through the body, and to deeply integrate the client's transformations and desired emotional states (like safety, love, or belonging), soaking them into every cell.

Curious if this is the right fit?

Let’s talk. 👉

Book a free 45-minute Clarity Call to explore what’s possible and see if working together feels right.

I’d love to hear from you.

Casey Vaasjo, Relationship and Sexuality Coach
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Client Praise

"Casey Vaasjo has been a guiding light in my journey towards self-discovery and deeper connection. Never before have I truly felt the absence of shame and self-judgment in myself - the absence of inner conflict. Her compassionate approach and expertise have truly made a difference in my life."   -Sara H
"I am so so so grateful for your deep confidence in the journey of life and of love and you sharing that energy with me. Our time together has made my entire course this year feel worth it. I go back to our sessions every time I am in doubt as this shows me my own North Star of my love and my light."   -Suzan R
"Having space held by Casey felt not only safe, but also expansive and filled with endless possibilities. Going into these guided sessions, I knew that something would shift each time. This brought excitement, because within that safety, I could really explore. The way Casey would ask questions or use the many tools she is equipped with, allowed for me, a much deeper exploration than I have been able to achieve within different modalities of counselling or coaching."   -Sandy D
"Five stars all the way! The main goal that led me to Casey's coaching was wanting to find clarity around what I truly desired and to align my life with that. Through this coaching journey, I had so many profound moments of growth and can now see clearly where so much of my inner conflict was coming from. Casey helped me find liberating language and tools for the painful patterns and limiting beliefs that I've been hung up on for decades. It was amazing to feel seen, heard and validated by someone who also had the mad skills to help me move toward my truest desires. It was so worth it."   -George P
"I feel like I made major progress because I can now understand where all that inner conflict was coming from. My values and my desires were not on the same page. Our sessions taught me how to connect with my true desires and give myself permission to form values around those wants and needs. It really feels like the beginning of a transformation toward a version of myself that is true and able to express my full self to the world without getting hung up on harsh judgments, whether it be from others or myself."   -Claire R
"I have never before been able to discern which values may actually not be mine. A big part of my work with Casey seemed to be just feeling worthy and deserving of my true desires and not judging them. Up to this point my tendency was to reject and judge my body's desires and feel shame about what it wants if it does not sit within the values I inherited from my family. What really helped me do this was the body work and learning to build back that trust that with my body… trusting that it knows what it wants and knows what it needs."   -Andrea R
"What I appreciated most about Casey during our sessions was her curiosity, perceptibility, and enthusiasm for my journey and my growth. Most of all it was her ability to validate my thoughts and experiences. This always felt genuine to me and helped me shed the shame, heavy energy and negative thinking patterns so that we could look forward together and get excited about what I really want and desire underneath all the fear of judgment. She showed a kind of care throughout that I have not seen before in this kind of coach/client relationship."   -Tracy B

Upcoming Workshops and Events 2025:

This Valentine’s Day, step into a sacred space of connection, warmth, and feminine empowerment. Heart Temple Retreat is an intimate, day-long gathering designed to nourish your heart, awaken your divine feminine essence, and deepen your bonds in sisterhood.

Through three powerful somatic rituals—Heart Breathwork, Divine Feminine Awakening, and Sacred Sisterhood Ceremony—you will be guided into a state of deep presence, emotional alchemy, and self-love.

Set in the serene beauty of The Queenery in West Northfield, NS, the retreat offers:
Wood-fired sauna & cold plunge for rejuvenation
Two nourishing homemade meals + coffee & tea
Sacred singing & embodied movement
A full day of feminine community & nature connection

This is your invitation to come home to yourself, witness and be witnessed, and celebrate love in its purest, most radiant form.

Date: Saturday March 1st 2025
Location: The Queenery, West Northfield, NS
Investment: $160  (
4.5 hours of group coaching, 2 homemade meals, coffee/tea, wood-fired sauna)
Facilitated by: Sexuality & Relationship Coach Casey Vaasjo

Join us in this transformational, heart-opening experience. Space is limited—reserve your spot now!

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Casey Vaasjo

VITA Certified Sex, Love, & Relationship Coach

Instagram @caseyvaasjo

Nova Scotia, Canada

© 2025 by Casey Vaasjo. 

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